You have to lessen your expectations of the people around you. Whether you love them or not they all seem to disappoint you in some way. It’s sad that so many people have come to believe that because when you come to love someone you start to lose sight of their imperfections.
You know that they are there. And, it’s not that you refuse to see them it’s that what they see as an inadequacy no matter if it’s in looks or lifestyle, you just see as another part of them to love.